Becky's points are 100% valid, but if you think this is bad, you should see what female Halo players go through. My girlfriend loves to play Halo 2 on Xbox live, (she likes LFS too, but that's a different story.) I've never heard more derogatory comments directed towards anyone than by these guys playing Halo. I've been on a couple servers with Becky, and while there are questions asked, they are generally pretty tame, at least what I've seen.
(And for those who have asked before, yes she is attractive, and no, I'm not sharing pictures :P)